The Value of Being Direct in Communication

Communicating is not just saying what you need to say, but speaking on the level of the intended target so that they understand what you’re saying.

The Value of Being Direct in Communication
Communicating is not just saying what you need to say, but speaking on the level of the intended target so that they understand what you’re saying. It is with the aim of leaving no questions.
The Value of Being Direct in Communication
Communicating is not just saying what you need to say, but speaking on the level of the intended target so that they understand what you’re saying. It is with the aim of leaving no questions.

Communication News

Social Media & Churches: Choose Platforms Selectively for Audience
The Role of the Audio Director: Engine Oil & Better Communication
Role of an Audio Director: Open Lines of Communication Key
Role of an Audio Director: Aim for Best Sound, Learn How to Empower Others

Team Management Resource

Worship Facilities Magazine, March-April 2018
The March-April 2018 issue of Worship Facilities Magazine offers articles about how to prepare, prevent and respond to church violence, a look into what church management software can do for your church community, and a piece on how a once popular nightclub venue was transitioned to become Shoreline Church's new home.
·

We’ve all seen the results of what transpires from poor communication. Offense. Misunderstanding. Misguidance.

Good leaders speak to their team members regularly and keep them in the loop. Great leaders go further, in that they communicate well. Habakkuk the prophet tells us to “Write the vision; make it plain… so he may run who reads it.”

Each member of your team will hear things differently. Speak their language clearly.

Why do we follow leaders, or vote for that congressman? It’s because we have confidence in them. We believe in them, and often because of what they have communicated to us. They have made the vision plain.

There are three key elements that are crucial to great communication - I call it the 3 ‘C’s of communication.

Clear

“Most likely to become the next TD Jakes,” the pastor, author and filmmaker who is the bishop of The Potter’s House – is what I always say about Bobby. He’s the one on our team that is passionate, energetic, intelligent beyond his years, and obsessed with fun facts. He often speaks in metaphors we don’t quite get, because the other members on the team are not exactly on his wavelength. My response to him, “Bobby, speak to us in a way that we will understand you!” He says OK, and proceeds to start over with his delivery.

Communicating is not just saying what you need to say, but speaking on the level of the intended target so that they understand what you’re saying. It is with the aim of leaving no questions.

Each member of your team will hear things differently. Speak their language clearly.

Concrete

One of my favorite movies scenes is from Dumb & Dumber.

Mary Swanson, played by Lauren Holly, is so clear that she doesn’t want a relationship with Lloyd Christmas, played by Jim Carrey.

First she tries to avoid being brutally honest, telling him that his chances are “not good.”

To which Carrey follows up wanting to know more in detail, asking, “You mean, not good like one out of a hundred?”

She then replies “I’d say more like one out of a million.”

To her surprise, though,  he responds, “So you’re telling me there’s a chance?”

Be concrete.

Be firm.

Leave no room for doubt.

I love how concrete Jesus was when he drew the line in the sand. Concrete communication is speaking your clear thought in a direct way, so that no one walks away questioning.

Being concrete doe not give you a pass on your manners. Be nice.

That brings us to our final ‘C’.


More About Megan Kelly
Megan H. Kelly is the Creative Director at HeartsEase Family Life Church in Baton Rouge, La. Her combined experience as a TV producer/reporter and more than 20 years in ministry is poured into building the kingdom through videography, graphic design, website and social media.
Get in Touch: megan@hflc.us    More by Megan Kelly

Latest Resource

Worship Facilities Magazine, March-April 2018
The March-April 2018 issue of Worship Facilities Magazine offers articles about how to prepare, prevent and respond to church violence, a look into what church management software can do for your church community, and a piece on how a once popular nightclub venue was transitioned to become Shoreline Church's new home.


Article Topics

Team Management · Leadership · Spiritual Health · Team Development · Communicated · Communication · Concrete · Correction · House · Jakes · All Topics

Support and Enhance the Worship Message

The latest strategies for sound, lighting and facilities can help you better attract and engage with your congregation. With Worship Facilities’ insights on leadership, communication and administrative tools, each issue shows you how to design and maintain your facility and how to adapt it to meet the changing needs of today’s members.
Explore the success stories of others, and find ways to enhance your weekly services. Get a free subscription to Worship Facilities magazine.

Comments


Editor's Picks
©2018 WFX Network · A division of Informa · 1166 Avenue of the Americas, 10th Floor, New York, NY 10036 · All Rights Reserved.